Love is in the Air


Thanks so much to Juanita of Blah, Blah, Blah for sharing her beautiful award with me. It was her first one... and she shared it with little ol' me. I am always grateful and happy to be loved, because love is wonderful, and people who show love are wonderful, and I love to show love to those who love love, hehehe. Stay with me now. Soooo, because love is in the air, I'm gonna do something I haven't done is a looong time when it comes to awards and memes... follow the rules.


I'm suppose to award 15 lovelies with this lovely award, so, here goes...

1. Beauty In Rare Form
2. Mama Bear - Single Mom Meets UC Berkeley
3. Espinoza's Love
4. Execumama's, I hear ya
5. Powerful Beyound Measure
6. What's It All About
7. You hear that, World?!
8. Outdoor Afro
9. Basic Obento
10. A Woman's Worth
11. Mommy Fabulous
12. Hanging With Mrs. Cooper
13. Tea and Honey Bread
14. Mama Shujaa
15. Chuliboobs


Friday Fill-Ins


1. Things may not have turned out right the first time, but it is not the end of the world.

2. Sitting here, listening to the sound of rain falling, I want to curl up with a big bowl home cooked goodness.

3. Cold hot-watered cornbread tastes so good!

4. Sometimes, putting others first is the key to the ultimate happiness.

5. A drive through the desert is breathtaking, really.

6. Well, maybe there is a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow afterall.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to spending some time with my journal, tomorrow my plans include reclaiming my space and Sunday, I want to enjoy that reclaimed space!

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Moms of Hue and Babygirlz Magazine



The brain child of Renee and Kristina, Moms of Hue is the new spot to be for mother's of color to congregate and join in on discussions of raising children within a system of unique experiences. I signed on as a contributor and can be found weighing in there on Thursdays. Stop by to do some weighing in of your own by clicking on the button above.

Today's weigh in: We are not our hair.

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Also, be on the lookout for the upcoming online publication for young girls of color, Babygirlz Magazine. Geared toward tweens and teens, it is both the dream and second baby, of my good friend Traci of Beauty In Rare Form. The focus of Babygirlz Magazine is to provide empowerment, and valuable resources to young girls so that they can transform and blossom into their true potentials. I will be contributing there as well. Please stop by the Babygirlz blog for more information about what we have to offer and our launch, follow us, and stay tuned for a moumental act.

You Know Your Blog Needs Attention When...

One of your readers reminds you that its your blogoversary!!

Thanks Teena in Toronto of Its All About Me.

Who knows what would happen to this place if nobody came by to check in on me from time to time. Its true. A Place of Comfort has official been on the scene for a whole year. Doesn't seem like it (perhaps because I've been slacking), but the calendar doesn't lie. I first hit the Publish Post button and introduced myself with this post on July 19th, 2008. Since then, that button and I have become friends, and so have a number of amazingly beautiful and talented women. I am grateful for the space and opportunity to just be me and to be supported along the way. I am looking forward to branching out more within this special space and I hope that all of you will continue the journey with me.

On to the next 364 days...

Decisions Move the Process Along


I remember when my professor said it. "Just make a decision and stick with it", she'd say. Well... I did this summer. In order to officially have earned my degree I have just two more classes to complete and the thesis. You do remember the thesis don't you? Yeah, its still waiting in the wings for my attention. Anyhoo... I had planned to complete everything this summer. I enrolled in the two classes, dusted off my research materials and was prepared to jump right in. Enter reality: its not a good idea to take math during the summer IF there are other classes involved. Nor is it a good idea to take math, other classes and write a thesis during the summer. I knew this before I signed up for summer classes, but I wanted to give it a go anyway. Who knows, I could have totally came out of it on top. I took 3 classes last summer and did every well!

Classes started and I realized that I should have listened to myself and others who warned me that not only taking math with other classes in the summer would be a bad idea, but also that taking it at Cal during the summer would be even worse of an idea. So, I'm sitting out the summer for some much needed down time and the opportunity to get some research done without the pressure of added academic responsibility. I'll sit in one more fall and then I'll be completely done, which will give me other benefits like time to find a job and a new apartment. I also wanted to be able to spend some quality time with Miss J actually enjoying the summer. We both deserve to have a break.

We got a chance to go to the water park last week with friends and we had a lot of fun. My legs got some much needed sun and our bodies got a natural dose of vitamin D.



Although sand is not my friend, we might find ourselves at the beach this weekend enjoying the nice weather.

What adventures are you and your family going on this summer?

I'm Still Confused


What is the real point of facebook and how is facebook different from Twitter? They both seem to be based around status updates. Yes, there are a few other things sprinkled throughout facebook, and there may be a few things within Twitter (wouldn't know because I don't tweet), but all in all, what is the point? Please explain.

I've been solely a Myspacer for some time now, and have been asked begged repeatedly by friends to get a facebook. I initially wanted to remain facebook resistant, but with graduation and friends moving on to difference places and phases of life, I broke down and signed up just to be able to keep in touch. I like the idea of being able to share/link posts through facebook, and being able to network with friends, BUT, I am still kind of scratching my head, asking myself why did I go ahead and sign up. I haven't seen anything exciting and haven't been impressed.

So, yeah, all of you hardcore facebookers out there (or semi hardcore), please explain to me why this is such a good social networking tool and not just another place for me to be bombarded with the minute-to-minute happenings of my friends that I don't always care to know.

Remembrance Continued


Happy belated 55th birthday mom.
In my heart, we are together forever.
7/2/54-5/31/92

Friday Fill-Ins

1. When I heard him say that he thinks I'm perfect I fell deeper in love with him.

2. Laughter + great friends really is the best medicine.

3. It's late, but who cares. I wanted to get my Friday Fill-In posted and darn it, here it is!

4. I am a mother first, always.

5. My eyes have seen some stuff in my short life.

6. I love strongly.

7. And as for the weekend, tonight I'm looking forward to hanging out with mommy friends, tomorrow my plans include figuring out a fireworks plan and Sunday, I want to talk myself into cleaning my house!

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All Wrapped UP






Its not perfect, but its close to what I envisioned. My friend will be coming to pick it up on Tuesday and I hope that she is pleased with both the presentation and the product as a whole. I'll let you know...

Something New


Just completed a new version of my Maze blanket for the nursery of a friend's newborn son. Remember the two blankets that I told you I sold before the end of the semester? Well, this is one of them. Blue and chocolate brown. The other will be a pastel green and yellow one for another little boy due in July. And I am still working on Miss J's all pink blanket that she has been hounding me to finish.

Hopefully, one day I will be moving these blankets off my couch for pictures and onto a more appropriate prop, such as a crib, or nice chair. For now, the couch will have to do because I'm not sure how long I will be holding on to this one, and because I plan on packaging it tomorrow and once its wrapped it'll stay that way until its owner unwraps it. I'll will fold it in a signature fold, wrap it in tulle, which is much better than celophane, then tie with an "Its a Boy" ribbon. It looks beautiful in my mind, we'll see how it looks once I start getting creative.