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Introducing: Babygirlz Magazine


It's finally here! After years of dedication and hard work, today, Traci L. Lee gets to present her baby to the world. She has nurtured this project, fueled by her passion for education and the empowerment of young black women. I am honored to be along for the ride as Executive Editor; honored to be trusted with the delicacy of her dream. I am truly inspired by Traci's entrepreneurial spirit!

So, what is Babygirlz Magazine?

An online magazine catering to young African-American women, ages 11-21, with a focus on "Growth Beyond Boundaries".
Babygirlz is all about encouraging young women to see themselves outside the box, and the earlier this process starts, the less time our girls waste suppressing their greatness. We want them to know that no goal is impossible to achieve when you have a support network behind you. Sometimes, all it takes is a little push in the right direction.

I encourage you to stop by Babygirlz Magazine, and bring your daughters, sisters, nieces, cousins, and sistah girls with you!

Let's Talk About Sex(ting)



I know you've seen the reports and heard the stories about teens sexting up a storm. The act of sharing naked or half naked pictures of themselves or others via picture mail on their cell. Apparently this is a huge issue, and one that carries a penalty under the law if carried out. Teens are being charged with possession of child pornography, are being convicted, and are having to register as sex offenders. All behind taking the private semi public. So far, it seems like the uproar is based on the respectability argument when it comes to girls and a sort of "protection from the real sex offenders" standpoint. Although it is true that pictures can always end up in the wrong hands, and often do (friends of the boyfriend/girlfriend) after bad breakups between the young minded, to be labeled as a sex offender because you send or receive a picture from your boyfriend/girlfriend is a bit harsh in my opinion. Especially when we have people who rape, molest, and murder who also wear that label.

I am torn on how I feel about the whole thing. I mean, I do think that there should be some kind of regulation of adolescent bodies in the virtual world, but its a little hard to regulate something that is always one step ahead of the game. How can you really ensure that your teen's body will not be shared with or without consent? If the option of picture mail is obsolete, there are still places like Myspace and Facebook where they can still be shared. Parents may take away cell phones and request that their child remove themselves from social media sites, but I asure you, new accounts will be opened right up under your nose, thus, bodies will be shared whether we want them to be or not. So then, is criminalizing the practice really the answer? I guess the problem is where technology, society and the law meet. There is always one just outside of the other. In this situation, it is the law that is outside of morality. I'm extremely torn on any possibilities. If we were talking about cyber bullying, I would think that it should be criminalized, but even that does not carry a label that will hinder one's growth as a person. To be labeled a sex offender is kind of like afixing a Defective sticker to a person. I'm just not sure that a teen should be punished in this way for this type of... offense.

What do you think?

Moms of Hue and Babygirlz Magazine



The brain child of Renee and Kristina, Moms of Hue is the new spot to be for mother's of color to congregate and join in on discussions of raising children within a system of unique experiences. I signed on as a contributor and can be found weighing in there on Thursdays. Stop by to do some weighing in of your own by clicking on the button above.

Today's weigh in: We are not our hair.

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Also, be on the lookout for the upcoming online publication for young girls of color, Babygirlz Magazine. Geared toward tweens and teens, it is both the dream and second baby, of my good friend Traci of Beauty In Rare Form. The focus of Babygirlz Magazine is to provide empowerment, and valuable resources to young girls so that they can transform and blossom into their true potentials. I will be contributing there as well. Please stop by the Babygirlz blog for more information about what we have to offer and our launch, follow us, and stay tuned for a moumental act.