What's That Black Stuff?

(Unhealthy Lung)

This past Easter weekend, Miss J and I went to an event that is held each year in the Bay Area called Eggster. We enjoyed checking out all the booths that were set up on the UC Berkeley campus, which provided artistic activities and cool science projects and information. Cal's Student Parent Association for Recruitment & Retention, also known as SPARR, even coreographed a moonwalk station for the kids that encouraged them to collect as many moon rocks as they could (which were really silver painted plastic eggs filled with treats). I trailed Miss J, arms overflowing with art project after art project, and mini basket of plastic egg after plastic egg, as she gathered with friends and had her knowledge tested on dental hygiene at a booth that was giving free floride treatments to the children and another booth that had human organs on display.

Miss J was fascinated with the two lungs and the two very different livers that lie in a tray in a shallow bath. She put on two latex gloves and identified which of the livers was healthy and which of the lungs was unhealthy. Falling even more deeply fascinated with her discovery of the connection between the unhealthiness of the lung and smoking. I've had these talks with her before about smoking and its affects, as she has tried to understand why, if smoking is so bad, that her aunt does it. Well, she got a chance to school asked her.

As if I had not already eatten enough ham, greens, yams, potato salad, corn bread muffins and banana pudding at my own house during Easter dinner, I whipped up a couple of plates and headed over to my sister in-law's house to collect some of her bbq ribs... which I had every intention on saving for the next day, but instead ended up savoring later that night. Anyhoo... as we were gearing up to leave, my sister in-law and a cousin decided to light up their cigarettes. Miss J advanced toward them talking and I began to over talking her, saying, "uh uh, come back this way. Talk to your Lee Lee from over here." As Miss J continued, my sister in-law couldn't make out what she was saying above the music and laughter that was going on in the house. So, I asked Miss J to tell me what she was trying to tell her aunt.

Miss J: Um... you remember the black stuff?

Me: Black stuff? What black stuff?

Miss J: From smoking?

Me: Oh! Yes (I say with a smile)

She turned and proceeded to tell her aunt about how, if she continued to smoke a lot, then her lungs were gonna be all black and brown and mushy and nasty, because smoking isn't healthy. And when you smoke your lungs become unhealthy. My sister in-law thought this information was hilarious coming from a soon-to-be 6 year old, and told her that what she had said was very true... then continued to puff on her cigarette.

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8 comments

smart girl, Miss J! lol

but i couldnt help laughing at your sister-in-law.. lol.. go ahead puff your lungs out. lol

What a great outing for you and Miss J!! Fun, challenging and informative. She definitely absorbed all of the information and applied what she learned. Her logical soon-to-be 6 year old mind will wise up to the fact that adults can be foolhardy...

:-)

Mama Shujaa.

I am very proud of your daughter. You gave her an extremely good gift to further guarantee her to not smoke.

Unfortunately, I don't think your sister in law could appreciate the message from your daughter unless she saw the results herself.

Very sad. Perhaps she could have at least faked it in front of your daughter to reinforce the message.

Sorry she didn't pick up the message.

If only everyone was as smart as your "soon to be six" daughter. Just precious!!

~ humps

Barbara - I adore this post. Miss J is such a smart little girl with such a good mommy! Reminds me of my little boys so much with her thought process. After the twin's teacher taught them at age 5 that cigarettes were drugs we went to Walmart one afternoon and as we passed a woman smoking cigarettes they said loud enough for her to hear "mommy, she's doing drugs"...oh how embarrassing...and she was shame..lmao

Thank you so much for your wonderful posts!

Loving the blog! I will be keeping up with you. I am really loving the music, too!

Anonymous  

Looks like blueberry muffin or something. LOL

i just love that simple logic that children are able to exhibit. "if it's bad for you why do you do it???"

this very moment i've got an uncle suffering from the effects of smoking...